Living in a multi-cultural society slash Country really opens your eyes to the many peoples of the world: Black,Brown,White and Yellow
I am practically alert to the ways and attitude of the different Group and Nationalities of peoples that I see around me on a regular basis: Blacks, Chinese, Whites and Indians
And although this post is just a Quick generalization and does not speak for the whole race of people I am bout to speak of, from what I have observed, it seems the black race is slightly leaning more towards the road to SELF DESTRUCTION than the other folks(THIS IS MAINLY A FOCUS ON THE YOUTHS)
Now don't get me wrong I know ever race fights amongst themselves time to time, but why is it in curtain black communities, it seem like a never ending battle? This is what an article wrote about this past week end in and around Toronto(my city)
"A brutal spasm of violence convulsed the city over 24 hours and left FOUR(4) dead and SEVEN(7) injured in SIX(6) separate incidents -- none more shocking than the death of 11-year-old Ephraim Brown caught in gang crossfire.

Have you ever seen China Town? They got a small town full of Chinese owned Businesses, Chinese owned Banks, Chinese market place, Chinese products(you name it, they got it Chinese made and owned) These people are so family, business and educationally oriented
And they may fight against themselves but they don't make it an issue to kill each other and get broadcast on the news, gaining a negative image. whether as a couple or as strangers, I've noticed them to be so loving. If a Chinese woman gets on the bus, Its more than likely she will sit next to a Chinese person if the seat is available
The Indians are similar to the Chinese: Family, Business and Education comes first.
A lot of them start from an apartment and work as a family towards owning a house and renting out the basement( I know cos without even thinking I know 2 people that rent out rooms from Indian people) but over the years the younger family members branches off on their own, not before helping the family secure financial stability and stability of their own
But In most black families (not all) as little "Keisha" starts dating and someone tells her she has a curfew all hell breaks loose because she feels like a woman and can do as she pleases. Many too young too often wines up Pregnant, moves out the families home and becomes no real value to their families
Have you ever been on the bus and saw a young Chinese or Indian mother with a child and no father present? I can't remember a Chinese or a Indian, but I can dam sure remember seeing a few young white and black single mothers(without the father present)
Can you imagine a mother pushing a stroller through a snowed-filled winter street and all the attention she gets loading the stroller on a fully loaded bus?
No need to ask if that child's life was planned for or if she/he(the child) has a college savings....well this is where the problem lies?
my apologies to all the single mothers struggling or not, I am well aware not every mother on the bus is struggling or didn't plan for their children's lives. I don't want to be prejudice, but these are my observations
And like myself the "Leroy's". Am bound to got in trouble Because more than likely I am in some way, Sharpe or form disobeying the law ie experimenting with minor drugs, like its nothing(weed), dealing and trafficking drugs with every thing that comes with it, womanizing, not focusing on the future and getting lead astray, wasting the most previous time of our life's: our youth
I admit that I left my parents house to live with my two cousins because I was stubborn and wanted to be free from parental control and within a years time I got in some trouble and moved right back to Square One, and boy Oh boy was that experience costly: time and money wise
And believe me, if it wasn't for my parent's non nonsensical attitude, I would still be out there with the rest of them. I can speak for most young youths and say we sometime believe there is a more lucrative life style selling and dealing on the street. Most of us go through that phase but some of us get stuff in that phase and some just don't make it out at all
My frustration with the issue of Gun Violence is, ever time something like this happens, the Mayor, the Premier and the rest of the city calls for tougher sentences
and even banning Hand Guns. This is usually the politicians reaction after the publics out cry
But I truly believe the root of the problem lies within the ATTITUDE & MENTALITY of the youths, we as the youths lack awareness on a wide ranch of things from: self control, integrity, career choices, educational facts, Brotherhood, a greater meaning for life etc.
I think its up to the indivduals and the peoples involved with these issues, not so must the leaders because as much as I could say Its hard here in Canada. I know without a doubt they are opportunities here for the taking, as long as you prepare yourself from early on in life, why do we learn when its too late?
I know this post shed some light on the negative issues occurring in some communities
But Please note I am well aware they are positive influences in these communities also
Question?
What do you think it will take to up lift the youths to a higher purpose in/for life?
and do you think its a societal problem or home based?
Will things change 50 years from now or will it be the same?
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